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Hated For Who You Are
Posted on 3/26/2009 at 6:41 PM - Post Comment
There was a question the other day on a questionnaire I saw of would you rather be hated for who you are or loved for who you are not. I have used the top diet pills that work for a while. I have tried to please everyone I know best by being what they wanted me to be, doing what they wanted me to do, being someone else. I have to tell you, it’s not so fun. I mean I certainly would’ve been successful I’m sure. But are you really all that successful if you aren’t yourself?
I find that it happens more with certain ones of us than others. For example, those of us who are introverted. Society seems to look down on it, so everybody from our parents to our teachers wants us to be more outgoing. Everybody wants us to be something different. Then there are those of us who simply don’t measure up to our parents wants. Teachers don’t really matter as much as parents to be honest. There are some girls I’ve known who have been on the top diet pills that work all their lives, because their mothers were always telling them they were fat, stressing how they needed to stay thin, telling them that the boys would never like them if they were too fat. This is when they were 8, 9, 10 in some cases. Now that leads to serious eating disorders in a lot of cases among other things. But honestly, it never works out to try to be someone else. It’s better to be hated because you are being yourself. If you are comfortable with it, well at least you’re happy. But even if everybody else is happy, it doesn’t mean that you are going to be. That’s where you get people who seem to have it all and yet go off and do something stupid.
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